Fuckism: You want a new life, but still got the habits of your old one. That’s not transformation, that’s cosplay.
Everyone talks about “change.” New goals. New mindset. New version of themselves.
But here’s the truth bomb: You can’t build a new identity using the same bricks that built your breakdown.
If you still:
- Avoid hard conversations
- Hit snooze more than you hit your stride
- Make excuses and call it “self-care”
- Blame instead of own
…then all you’re doing is dressing up.
You might look different. You might talk different.
But if the actions are the same, if the mindset’s still scared, if the discipline’s still soft—
You’re not transformed.
You’re just playing pretend.
You’re cosplaying as your potential.
Change ain’t about wanting a new life—it’s about earning it through choices that scare you, stretch you, and strip the old you down to the studs.
So yeah, call it what it is: you’re either becoming it, or faking it.
There’s no in between.